Every day's a new day

Every day is new and every day is different. Some days, Jude does so well I can imagine a future with him on the soccer fields with his brothers and sisters -- other days I imagine him trapped on the sidelines in a wheel chair. It isn't that sports are that important to us as a family, but the ability to do things together is. Will it be fair to Jude to do things he can't -- or will it be fair to the other kids to limit family activities to just the things Jude can participate in? I hope it doesn't come to that.